Atrophy – A wasting away, a gradual decline in effectiveness or vigor due to underuse or neglect.
Every now and then, I need to revisit WHY we do all we do. It’s not about being busy. It’s about staying engaged in community, giving and receiving joy. It’s about living our lives with purpose. Just as a muscle will atrophy from lack of exercise, a person’s spark for life will decline and waste away if meaning cannot be found. There is a human need to be recognized and relevant. The more I include Morgan, the more Light I see in her.
Since Morgan exited school last May, my biggest concern has been how to keep life meaningful for her. Knowing that college, marriage, and the other norms of life are not in her future (short of a miracle), I continually pray to be able to provide things that bring quality and enrichment. Having a schedule is imperative to keep down her anxiety, but having “Too Much Schedule” can be equally stressful. We’ve been on and off the treadmill of activities, and we’re learning, it’s all about striking a healthy balance.
Once upon a time, in the Hundred Acre Wood, when asked whether it was time to WORK or PLAY, Winnie the Pooh replied, “YES!”. Following the wisdom of Winnie, we do a little of both, and Morgan has no problem letting me know when she’s “Busy Relaxing”. 😉
Now Morgan works a couple of hours each week at a local sandwich shop, and has her list of chores at home. She volunteers once a week, helping her Papaw with Meals on Wheels, and her Sunday school teacher put lesson plans together. She enjoys piano lessons, special needs sports, social activities, and Sunday school. Together, we enjoy music, art, and baking on occasion. Recently, we’ve both become part of an Adult Friends Choir at church that performs for assisted living centers in our community. And we have one day a week that NOTHING is planned, except “Staying Right Here” at home.
Until Next Time,
Know The Hope!